I’m a bit of a planner. I like to map out my day, weeks, and months around large events in my life. It helps me prepare mentally for the type of energy I am going to need for that day. One of the worst things is when I have not planned for something and get blindsided by a commitment.
For any of my real-world friends who are reading this I hope this explains why I didn’t come to your event or showed up with all the peppiness of Eeyore.
I tend to be a pretty social person but that comes with a decent amount of mental preparation and careful planning. Without these steps no one will believe the crazy story you told them about me when they meet your friend who is standing in the corner all evening. They’re not meeting the real me after all.
I can’t be alone in this. Just picture getting home after a long day. Changing into your comfiest lounging clothes and discovering a new Netflix series to binge. Feels good right?
That is until you get the FaceBook notification about that event you forgot was tonight. Now you have to rush through getting ready and try to show up no more than fashionably late. Do you think the person who makes it there will be the best version of you?
As much as we hate that feeling we get when something we forgot pops up we seem to love to treat out money that way. People hate making or following a budget so much that they treat their money like some unexpected event pop up. They have a general idea of what they have planned but there is always something they missed. It’s shocking how few people know their own spending.